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Tuesday, January 12, 2016

The Edge of "Old" -- My 69th Year.

 
 The year 2015 was a "Life Changing" year for me.  The way I see the world has, quite literally, changed big time.  I now sadly see how my vision of this once beautiful planet has been much more unique than I ever thought was possible.  I feel it's my challenge to share the beauty and amazing balance this world presents us, if only we could recognize and respect it.

   My year started with a freezing cold trip to the N.H. coast with two good friends Robin and Harry. We were in search of "The Snowy Owl".  As it turned out the snow banks were so high, our viewing was limited.  Instead we were impressed by the concentration of shore birds.
                                  

   After a great day together, we decided we could endure the cold, so we met for the Laconia Dog Sled races.  It was another super day but even windier and colder than the coast.
                                          

  We lost our old friend Stella the Fella the week before we left for Nepal.  He was 15 years old when he died in his sleep at Gretchen's feet one night.  What a Guy!
                                

   I will tell you the wonderful story of how our lives reconnected with Paul and Kay Bueno de Mesquita, if you ask. We linked up with them and 14 terrific U.R.I. students for Alternative Spring Break in March. We traveled to Nepal and took the training course in "Kingian Nonviolence Conflict Resolution".  The group was the Rhode Island students, Nepali students,  police and military personnel, professors, writers, teachers, educators, lawyers from South Asia -- and us.  What an experience!  This truly was "Life Changing"!
 

  After the students left, Gretchen and I stayed in a very gracious guest house called The Paulines in the foothills outside Kathmandu.
                                  

                              
   Suni (far left ) was the most efficient and kind manager, here with friends we met from England.
                              

We then returned to the Kathmandu Boutique Hotel where we met a bookseller and his wife.  These lovely people lived across the alley (open courtyard).  We talked from our third story balcony to them on their third story balcony.  They invited us for breakfast --and that's another great story.
                                         

   We flew home on the last day of March and were greeted by a guest under our prayer flags.
                            

      I am a member of the Community Photo Club of Plymouth, NH where I've made new friends and learned a great deal more about photography.  Here is one of our Challenges on what Peace looks like to me.  My piano is where I sit and play "Peaceful" melodies while glancing at the meaningful reflections of our life.

I have also enjoyed great days sharing in the life of an incredible man and a former student.  Bill has cut, milled, and built this super house totally on his own ....
                         
      He also makes maple syrup.
                                     

 We had an interesting Spring.  Many mornings in April started out with temperatures in the 20's F. Our first peepers were calling on the 17th.

  Then the terrible news of the earthquake in Nepal arrived on April 25. Gret and I traveled to Rhode Island for a reunion of our group and we put together fund raising strategies.  The students did a terrific job.
                              

    Spring brought the loons back to Hermit Lake, but something, probably an otter, did in the two eggs in the nest. When we later traveled to Pittsburg, NH, we found the loons were more successful in raising young.
                             

   Also, the moose were more plentiful.  Here's a young bull and cow at the East Inlet.                        

   Back home, we had the opportunity to meet many of the presidential candidates, and our choice is with:  The Bern!
                             

     I enjoyed many paddles on Hermit Lake, sometimes seeing spectacular birds like this Yellow Warbler and Red Winged Blackbird.
  

  Gretchen decided to dive into Martin Luther King, Jr.'s philosophy of Peace and Justice, so she headed off to the University of Rhode Island. She's now a Level 1 trainer in Kingian Nonviolence  Conflict Resolution.  What an impressive gathering of leaders of Nonviolence. I spent two very full days there.
                                   

   The garden was a full time job. There were close to 40 tomato plants tied up on supports and pole beans that needed an additional 3 feet above the 14' poles for support.
                                  

    Northern Pass continues to be a major pain in the ... environment. They continue to tell bold face lies like, "Oh no, we don't go through wetlands. They are all marked and we go around them."  Notice the skidder tracks through the wetland .  I will be so glad when they pack their bags and sink into the tar sands.                                

  The photo club has sparked a lot of interest in New Hampshire beauty that Northern Pass does not see -- places that are habitats for very special plants like these yellow lady slippers.......
                                        
 ...which support the beautiful Luna Moth.
                                      
Or, the spectacular waterfalls in Thornton...
                                       
                                   ...and North Conway(find Harry).                                             
      New Hampshire is a rare place .... and the Northern Pass transmission lines destroy rare places!

We did make one more trip to U.R.I.  This time it was National Peace Day.  It was great to be back with the inspirational group. We managed to organize a large student body for PEACE.


Some photo club members (and spouses) spent a very "Chilly" night on October 27 to watch and document the Total Lunar Eclipse.   Quite amazing!

 2015 also marked our 50th Graduation from Westfield High School. Yes, we did attend.  (Not as much fun as the 25th) and Wow -- we found some major changes, especially reading the list of our classmates who have passed on.  That was very sobering. 

We reconnected with lots of old friends: Bob and Chris Piazsic and Gary Marcoullier were nice surprises.  I grew up with Bob in the "old neighborhood" and Gretchen knew Gary from the early 1950's gang on High Street.

The next day, brother Rob brought me to some water falls outside of Chester -- really beautiful.

   In November, Gretchen and I traveled to Scotland to join our very good friend Kay for her birthday.  She celebrated with a fun-filled Jazz trio and Afternoon Tea. A Great Visit  and perhaps a quick study (for our own upcoming birthdays)...


  Back home, we had the warmest Christmas on record.  Some people were out water skiing on Newfound Lake. We were in Westfield with no snow and people in shorts .

   One amazing event was the Christmas Full Moon.  The last time this happened was 1977, the year we moved into our "Unfinished" house on Christmas Eve. The temperature then was -20 degrees F. This year it was +46 degrees F.    

  Looking back, this has been a very FULL year. We decided to celebrate my 69th birthday a bit differently, so we went to "A Newfound Bed and Breakfast".  Here's yet another good story if you would just post and you'd like to hear more about what made these events "Extra" special.    

  I hope you can relate to some of these events...
  and you share with me the hope for
  a more Peaceful Year.

   


 


 


Sunday, October 18, 2015

A Barrel of Fun ... the Edge of Aquatic


I saw this female gray tree frog on a raspberry branch hanging over my rain barrel.  It was early June and I hadn't heard any "chirping", so never thought to cover the rain barrels ... yet. 

I never saw a single cluster of the many groups of 12 eggs.  But by June 20th, we had hundreds of tadpoles swimming in the barrel.


It was fascinating to watch their development. The transparent spots are fairy shrimp and I learned they are NOT a food for the tads.


The hind legs were visible within two weeks, but the forelegs took forever.  This individual looked ready for the fourth leg to "pop" on Oct. 13th.  It finally broke the filmy skin late the next day. 


One of the real surprises for me, while waiting for my eye to heal, was:  I discovered frogs shed their aquatic skin. You can see the ghost of the skin over the fingers on his right forearm.


I very carefully checked each morning. I had 12 larvae in an aquarium in the house and (thankfully) they seemed to climb early in the morning once they became terrestrial.


I released this fellow just before the remaining 10 took a trip to the Bridgewater / Hebron 3rd grade.
It was a GREAT couple of visits with Mrs. Shedd and her students.  They had "Super Observations" and they told me they learned a lot of new facts about frogs.


It is so important to be aware of our relationships with our surroundings and the responsibilities we have to all organisms.  We all -- frogs and humans -- hold a piece to the puzzle.


Friday, May 8, 2015

Survival, Earthquake...... The Edge of Grieving

The World has changed since my last post. Nepal and the Kathmandu Valley was hit with a 7.8 earthquake on Saturday, April 25.  This has shaken me to the core. A month earlier, we were enjoying an amazing trip that connected us with kind and peaceful people in this same area.  Now, we fear for them and for their losses.

Tomorrow, we share our spectacular journey and experiences with friends and neighbors at the Gordon-Nash Library in our home town of New Hampton, New Hampshire.

The Good News is we have heard from almost all our new Nepalese friends, and they are safe. Many have lost their homes and work, but they have survived.

One school we visited is no longer standing, yet all 50 children and founder, Pushpa Basnet, and her staff are safe. They are living under a tarp over a greenhouse frame.  They need immediate supplies such as food, water and shelter for the upcoming monsoon season.  They have long-term needs for rebuilding a permanent home on their own land.
You can donate to the ECDC/ Butterfly House through the Utopia Foundation.  100% of your donation goes to Pushpa and the children.  Here's the link:

https://utopiafound.org/iniatitives/rapid-crisis-response/

I will post again soon with a continuation of our adventures and an update on the people we know there.
Value each day ........   Namaste ... Barry

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Earth Day... The edge of responsibility.

Happy Earth Day to all. These "special"days have such a Hallmark greeting card feel to them. Once a year we acknowledge "we" are part of the environment and hopefully do something responsible to make the Earth a better place.
           

Last night I was finishing a book by the Dalai Lama, "Ethics for the New Millennium.  He states:  an individual's "lack of contentment is the source of damage to our natural environment and, thereby, of harm to others. Which others? In particular, the poor and the weak. Within their own community, though the rich may be able to move to avoid, for example, high levels of pollution, the poor have no choice"...... "If we choose not to modify our behavior out of respect for others' equal right to happiness and not to suffer, it will not be long before we notice the negative consequences."


Just back from Kathmandu, Nepal his words are so right. The poor are already feeling the ills of our greed. The amazing gift of this trip for me was the attitude of the Nepali people. These wonderful people were so giving and peaceful. Their wealth was inner, and they shared openly.


This is yet another Earth Day with major political powers arguing over the question of Climate Change. The truth is the only thing we can change is how "We" fit into this beautiful planet.  Do we continue to be the ONLY species on Earth ruining its own habitat?  Or, do we change and assume our personal responsibility.   Do we learn and act on living our own lives sustainably.

Namaste ... Barry




Monday, April 20, 2015

Namobuddha Organics on the Edge of the Himalayas.



On arrival at the Namobuddha Eco Resort, we met Ingrid. She and her husband built this super guest house using local builders and materials. Their goal has been to be a model of sustainable farming and responsible tourism. She reminded me of Helen Nearing.
                                             

Night life at the night light: 
the brown guy looks like an Asian Gypsy Moth

What a spectacular sunrise!  It is our first view of the Himalaya Mountains.
                                         

Sunrise ladies Helena, Allie, and Cassandra

Common Mynah bird, they are great mimickers .

On the way to the Namu Buddha Stupa.  This small town has the same name.  It's one of the great Buddhist pilgrimage sites in Nepal.  This smaller shrine is at the base of the steep path and many steps to the main temple and monastery.  No one ever said it would be easy...

Ladies digging up compost from a huge "communal" pile
                                               

Happy campers + monks
                                          


Had a great time with "The Matts" taking photos and spotting birds.
White Cheeked Bulbul

     Blue Fronted Red Start .....what a beauty!

Next up: Monks, Prayer flags, and on to Nagarkort.